Saturday, November 26, 2022

My First Memory

A large grey chair in my grandparents’ 
Living room in Richmond, California, 
Not so much the chair but the person 
            Propped up inside it. 

I remember nothing of her appearance, 
Only the chair, which now remains in my 
Parents’ living room, reupholstered 
             Like all of our lives. 

Every element of her image at three days 
Of age has been replaced by something 
Far more memorable than the little dress 
             She wore that morning, 

The cap placed on her head, the bracelet 
She wore from the hospital, and her chubby 
Cheeks. This was my new sister, Shira. 
             She was my first friend. 

My two year old mind could not tell me 
How she would later tease me into seeing 
Her as someone completely different 
             From anyone else, 

Let alone any boy. She gave me lessons 
For manhood well before manhood, even 
As her small tummy was the target 
             Of my unruled fist. 

Her joy at Christmas, her voice joining 
Mine in songs, her tears over a fish 
She caught without realizing what it meant 
To capture nature 

Are indelible features of my childhood. 
So even though three siblings were to join 
Us and our lives have long separated 
             By choices we’ve made, 

My first memory as I knelt before that chair 
Is of my feeling of wonder over this new 
Someone who held so much of my future 
             In two tiny hands.

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